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Wanting to bring a friend to your divorce lawyer?
Deciding whether to bring a friend to your divorce lawyer meeting involves weighing both potential benefits and drawbacks:
Benefits:
Emotional support: Having a trusted friend present can provide comfort and reassurance during a stressful time.
Another Set of Ears: Your friend might help recall details you forget during the discussion.
Different perspectives: They could offer an objective viewpoint on certain aspects of the situation.
Drawbacks:
Confidentiality concerns: Sharing sensitive information in front of someone else might compromise attorney-client privilege. They may also share information that was discussed with others potentially compromising your case.
Distraction: Their presence could hinder open communication with your lawyer or divert focus from crucial topics. You may not feel comfortable discussing everything in front of your friend.
Unwanted influence: Their opinions or biases might cloud your judgment or complicate decision-making.
Ultimately, the decision is personal. Consider these factors:
Your comfort level: Would you feel more open and honest discussing everything with your lawyer alone?
Your friend’s suitability: Are they level-headed, emotionally neutral, and trustworthy?
Your lawyer’s policy: Some lawyers prefer individual consultations for confidentiality reasons.
It’s best to discuss your concerns with your lawyer beforehand. They can advise you based on your specific situation and help you make an informed decision.
